Reasons Why Children Misbehave And How To Overcome Them.

There is usually a very good reason why a child misbehaves and we can deal with it more effectively if we understand what is causing the problem. Understanding child behavior problems is fundamental to finding the best approach to handling these problems.
There are many possible reasons why a child misbehaves. These are some of them.
- A need to feel that they belong. An unwanted child may throw tantrum to get notice. So it is important that you assure a child that they are still part of the family, even when they misbehave. Give them the proper attention when the situation arises.
- Misbehave when they are upset. Any changes to a child's normal routine can cause upsets to occur, so reassure them and show them how to adapt to the new circumstances.
- Misbehave as a way to get what they want. If bad behavior has worked in the past to get them what they want, it is worth trying again. So make sure that you do not inadvertently reward bad behavior.
- Misbehave when they feel inadequate or lack confidence. They may act up when afraid to try out new things in case they make a mistake, so help your child understand that everyone makes mistakes.
- Misbehave when they do not feel well, are hungry or are tired. Make sure that they eat healthy foods, get plenty of exercise and between 8-12 hours sleep each night.
- Misbehave when they are disappointed. A child is easily upset when they are disappointed and quickly show signs of irritability. We need to accept their feelings and help them to cope with their disappointment.
- Misbehave when they are discouraged. We are sometimes quick to admonish bad behavior but often forget to praise good behavior. Children need praise and approval even for small things and this helps to prevent them misbehaving to get attention.
You can love your child without accepting their bad behavior. Explain that they do not have to earn your love by behaving well, you love them anyway. But emphasize that it is because you love them that you want them to know how to behave properly. Encourage them to talk about their thoughts and feelings, it strengthens the loving bond between you and your children.
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